Deep Ice Breakers

Based on Arthur Aron's intimacy research. Three rounds, each deeper than the last.

Round 1 · Light & curious1 / 167

If you could live in any city in the world for exactly one year — not as a tourist but as a local — where would you land?

How to use

Take turns answering each question fully before moving on. Resist the urge to skip the uncomfortable ones — that's where the connection happens.

Start with Round 1 and only advance when both people feel ready. Round 3 is genuinely vulnerable; only go there when trust is established.